Life Quotes !

Ever since I was a child, I have this habit of following great sayings or quotes. My day starts with keeping in mind some quotations, which I follow very strictly. These quotes have helped me in every aspect of my life and made me a happy-go-lucky nature guy! Or I may say, my entire life's principles are based on these quotes. Following are few of them.

1. Whenever you are in a trouble or feel that something has made your life worse, just ask yourself one question, "Will this even matter after 10 years?". If yes, then you seriously are in trouble. But most of the times, the answer will be a NO.

2. Give people more than they expect, and do it cheerfully.

3. Don't take life too seriously, you will never escape it alive anyway.

4. Only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in their lives.

5. Learn to listen, opportunity sometimes knocks very softly.

6. Patience and coolness are the only two things you need to live the life.

7. Pray ! Even if you don't believe in God.

8. Never give up . Success comes due to hard work ,not due to fate or talent.

9. People deserve a second chance, but not the third.

10. Never ever compromise on your self-respect and attitude.

11. Be nice to people, even to your enemies. Making someone happy doesn't cost you anything. Sooner or later, they will appreciate it. !

When Things change..

There comes a point in your life from where things cannot get any worse. Accompanied cursed fate has changed many things in past two months. The effect was so severe that it isolated me from the world. It destroyed my sense of fear, worry, reality, relations, hopes and humor. The Only thing I did in past 15 days was thinking. Some people, I thought are the ones who will always give me a shoulder, were the first one who crushed me right under their feet, and some people whom I thought as "ready-to-dance-on-my -grave" were the ones who helped me in these critical situations. It's funny. It really is. The fact that I have to start everything from the scratch scares me. In one minute,I was secure and in next, insecure. Suddenly change has become enemy and I am trying to cling on to the past with dear life. I want to stop that moment when everything went wrong. But soon I realized past is drifting further and further away. Lying on bed, I feel like an idiot. My priorities have changed, my opinion about people has changed. But the storm inside is now settled. In one way, I have controlled my mind to think what I want to think. It is settled and the answers are now clear. I am still in the hope that sun will shine.

The Lost Mind

It has been more than 4 nights, I am wide awake. Eccentric changes in heinous relationships and the fact that life cannot be predicted, have changed something in me. I no longer feel a part of this world, where there is no value for honesty, trust, caring nature or relations. The only person you can rely on for solving brutal problems of life is "you". Attachment, wanting someone's shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to or dependency on anyone is nothing but your weaknesses. Only haplessly incompetent people need these things. Within 3 weeks, I have buried that ever smiling, cracking-stupid-joke-on-every-single-sentence, caring and helping Mani somewhere deep in my heart. He is no longer a part of me. I no longer feel attached to anyone. I don't know what happened. Many things happened to me all of a sudden and the effect was catastrophic. It destroyed the very existence of me. I don't know how much time will it take me to recover from this impasse.


All I want to do now is to be focused on my future. My desire to be perfect in my dreamed aspects has grown more stronger. Ever since I was born, life has never been fair to me. I struggled almost in every phase. Very few people know the struggle I did for my entire goddamn identity. But I never complained. I smashed the fate every-time it tried to let me down. But there has to be limit. I mean why me? This fact turned me into an agnostic 5 years before. I never believe in God. Because if he were there, he would have done something about me. But he never helps. May be God only helps the stronger. So damn it, one day, I will be. No matter how many times you let me down, I will come back. So dear god and all those "inspirational" people, WATCH ME !

Life's Lessons Learned

1. If you can't achieve something in normal ways, try being a Psycho. It works. All that matters is your passion and attitude.


2. Ignorance is bliss as long as it's from your side. But it becomes a curse otherwise.


3. Stay away from love and trust till the time you achieve something in life. Do I even need to elaborate on this?


4. After 9 failures,10th is the success. But most of the times, we quit at 9. Patience is a learned skill.


5. One category of people is your parents, who will never leave you alone, no matter what. Another is Everyone else.


6.Time Does heal everything. Give time, some time.


7. You just lost everything? Think again? There ALWAYS is a new start. Remember rule number 6.


8. Laugh, cry, joy and anger. All are vital. These mixed feelings make us Human. Learn to make peace with each feeling. 


9. People deserve a second chance, but not the third.


10. Things you need the most come back to you if you don't follow them. They will. It's all written.

choti choti magar moti baatein!!!!

There is always someone who loves you more than you know
(Belive me,there is..!!!)













Express yourself creatively












Fall in love
with
someone..









Cherish every Sunday












Live up to your name :-)















At the end of the day... PRAY














Indulge in the things
you truly
love







Exercise to keep fit









Love
someone
with
all of your
heart










Watch your step










...and say "I love you" often










Share with friends










Seize the Moment











Always be up for surprises












dont worry!!!! It will get better












Hold on to
good frnds;
they are
few and
far
between








smile at least
once a day!









RELAX !!!!No matter what...











Take
lots of naps..
(though not allowed in the office..:-) )









Give lots of kisses














Meet new people, even if they look different to you











Be weird whenever you have the chance
(I never skip this one!!!!







Believe in yourself












Laugh often
(dont give a damn
to confused look
of people..:-))

















Share a joke with friends











Be brave....
but it's ok
to be afraid
smetimes





Try to have
a little fun each day.
..its
imp. :)









Don't waste food
(Look at d poor people around u who struggle everyday even for a single Rupee..)







Take an
occasional
risk







Love your friends,
no matter who
they are












Remain calm,
even when it seems hopeless










Work together as a team

















Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number










Study hard






Well..pick up anything and start doing ..U will be amazed how happy you are despite of life's struggle....!!!!